To control your mind and control your temper is something which can be done by everyone. It does sound easy, isn’t it? But to really do it may be difficult. You would need the will to really want to change and recognize the fact that being bad temper is harmful to you both in the physical and psychological sense. What’s more, you would definitely leave a bad impression to those who know you. Hence, it is both important and necessary to learn how to control your temper effectively. Read the rest of this entry

How to change yourself to better achieve your goals? You have changed physically and that can be seen by many; you have become more matured and that too cannot be denied but are you still thinking, perceiving and analyzing things the same old way? Most probably you are. Those who affected you the most when you were kids; your parents, teachers and friends, could have influenced you and affected your beliefs and values which in turn affect your thinking and decision making. So if you are wondering why you are nowhere near your dreams, take a look at this article and gain some insight of what has actually happened and how you are going to change yourself almost instantly. Read the rest of this entry

To make decisions about doing or not doing certain things can determine your success in life.  Have you ever wonder why some people have it all? And why is it that you aren’t just cut out for it? Yes indeed, if you think you really cannot do it, you are most probably right. “How discouraging and cruel!” you may think, but don’t get me wrong for saying that. Most of us just don’t have the confident to do something which we have never tried in our life because we do not have any experience to fall back on. And as such, when we don’t have any confident and courage to even tried it, we are already beginning to fail. Read the rest of this entry

“Mind over body!” This was the phrase that I used to hear from my superiors while having my long distance run during my national service in army. What the phrase meant was to use my mind to control my physical body. How? By focusing on the finishing line and how fast I would be reaching the spot, my mind in a way got my body going even though I might not have that kind of stamina. Yes, the mind is indeed powerful and it can be powerful in many other areas other than a long distance jog. However, mind power is useful only when you believe in it and know how to use it. Read the rest of this entry

“If only I have an extra hour everyday!” You lamented at the tons of job waiting to be done. Your time management is a mess and you think time is not on your side. But yet you are not prepared to complain about being overloaded to your superior and you think your colleagues would think low of you if you do so. In addition, you have this fear of loosing your chance of getting promoted and even worst, your job. As such, you continue to bite the bullet and try in vain to complete those uncompleted projects even at the expense of your family and health. Now, is that what you want in life? Is that all about life? Is it worthwhile?  Read the rest of this entry